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Monday, July 27, 2015

Happy 3rd Birthday, Clark!



I can't believe this guy is 3 years old already!  In so many ways it feels like he should be three, and then in so many ways, it doesn't!  He makes our lives so fun and exciting.  He's definitely my CRAZY child, who is either laughing, playing, and kidding around, or whining and crying... there's not much in-between with him.  He loves shadowing and playing with his big brother, but can turn very quickly and get mad at him over the silliest things.  He loves his daddy, loves to fight and wrestle with him, loves to help him mow with his little lawn mower, and waits for him at the door when he comes home every day, but has gotten rather attached to his mommy this summer.  He's finally becoming more of a cuddlier, when the mood strikes him.  He likes to sit with me in the mornings, but if Cooper invades his "mommy space" he absolutely loses it.  He loves the idea of swimming, but gets rather put out with it after about 30 minutes.  He says he hates going to the "exercise place " (aka, the YMCA) when I drag him there during the week, but always ends up having a blast when I drop him off.  If you take him to a playground, he'll swing for as long as anybody is willing to push him, and cry until you come back and push him some more.  He still loves his crib, baby food, pacifier, and wearing diapers, so I don't know if he's ever going to give up his "baby" side of life.  He loves acting like he's a baby, so maybe he's not quite ready to grow up yet, although he tells people he's 4 or 5 when they ask, and he tells me daily that he's going to school when Cooper does.  He still loves construction vehicles, but has taken a liking for dinosaurs, too.  He loves Curious George and pretty much any show that comes on Nick Jr.  If he goes "number 2" in his diaper he'd rather wear if for hours than tell his mommy who can't smell it - oddest thing in the world!  He's still got the biggest sweet tooth I've ever seen, and we're hoping this will work to our advantage when he finally decides to potty train.  The sweet little gap in his teeth still makes my heart melt, and his rare kisses give me butterflies.  He's one of the sweetest children I've ever met, and I'm so thankful God blessed us with him 3 years ago!  Happy birthday, Clark!  You're loved by SO many!

Monday, July 20, 2015

Summer Book Review #2

I've done a lot of reading this summer, so I thought I'd share my second round of books in a little review with you.  I love reading, and now that the boys are a little older and more independent, I've been able to do more reading this summer than I have since Cooper was born.  Anyways, here's a little review of my latest reads.  Oh, I'm not including my "Kindle Free" books I've read, you can look at the cover of those and pretty much predict the whole outcome, but I do enjoy reading those for a quick, mindless read.  The book descriptions below are from Amazon.

As war surges in the factions of dystopian Chicago all around her, Tris attempts to save those she loves—and herself—while grappling with haunting questions of grief and forgiveness, identity and loyalty, politics and love.
This was book #2 of the Divergent series.  I flew through this book too (before school was even out), but it wasn't quite as good as Divergent.  The love story wasn't all nice and neat through this one, so I read in a panic, desperate to see what was going to happen to Tris and Four.  I also rushed through to figure out what was going to happen in book three.  This book definitely developed the characters more, which was great.
What if your whole world was a lie?
What if a single revelation—like a single choice—changed everything?
What if love and loyalty made you do things you never expected?
This was the third and final book of the Divergent series, so I couldn't put it down because I was so desperate to find out of the fate of Tris and Four, but mainly just Four.  Lots of things happen in this book, several of which are a bit shocking, and I liked it until the end.  The most shocking thing that happened was the ending though (which I won't spoil), but let me tell ya, it almost ruined the whole series for me.  I had been warned, but I'd hoped it wouldn't be that bad... it was worse than bad.  I was furious when I read it, and hoped that it was all a bad dream and that everything would be wrapped up nice and neatly.  Well, that didn't happen.  If you haven't read the series, don't let the ending stop you, just be mentally prepared for the worst.  It's probably my least favorite ending of a book that I've ever read.

When Margo Roth Spiegelman beckons Quentin Jacobsen in the middle of the night—dressed like a ninja and plotting an ingenious campaign of revenge—he follows her. Margo’s always planned extravagantly, and, until now, she’s always planned solo. After a lifetime of loving Margo from afar, things are finally looking up for Q . . . until day breaks and she has vanished. Always an enigma, Margo has now become a mystery. But there are clues. And they’re for Q.
I had read The Fault in our Stars by John Green last summer and really liked it, so I thought I'd like this one too.  Don't get me wrong, I liked it, and read it rather quickly, but it was just one of those books I was fine not picking up until I read before falling asleep at night.  Most of the time, if I really like a book, I can't put it down throughout the day.  I liked the main character, Quentin, a lot.  Based on the description above, I thought the book was going to be more of a serious mystery, but it wasn't, which kind of disappointed me.  Anyways, through the majority of the book Q and his friends are trying to find this girl, and it builds you up so much to her being found.  The ending is what really disappointed me the most.  It was very anticlimactic in my opinion, and kind of just let you hanging.  I don't regret reading it, but it definitely wasn't one of my favorites.

Libby Day was seven when her mother and two sisters were murdered in “The Satan Sacrifice of Kinnakee, Kansas.” She survived—and famously testified that her fifteen-year-old brother, Ben, was the killer. Twenty-five years later, the Kill Club—a secret society obsessed with notorious crimes—locates Libby and pumps her for details. They hope to discover proof that may free Ben. Libby hopes to turn a profit off her tragic history: She’ll reconnect with the players from that night and report her findings to the club—for a fee. As Libby’s search takes her from shabby Missouri strip clubs to abandoned Oklahoma tourist towns, the unimaginable truth emerges, and Libby finds herself right back where she started—on the run from a killer.
I had read Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn last summer, and it kept me on the edge of my seat.  Reading that book last year also prepared for the horrible language in this book.  Her language isn't for the faint of heart, and had me almost stopping both books several times.  Anyways, this book definitely kept me wondering, but it was SO dark and depressing... like probably the most depressing book I've ever read.  The title is a great fit.  I would read for a little while, then I'd have to sit it down because I felt like I needed to take an antidepressant.  Anyways, by the end of it I was dying to find out who did it, and I never figured it out until it came out and said it.  It was a good book, but if you read it, definitely don't expect something light and happy- I don't know that there was one happy part in it.  There's one book left of hers that I haven't read, Sharp Objects, and it's on my list.


It begins with an early morning phone call to Myron Bolitar. His old flame Terese Collins is in Paris, and she needs his help. In her debt, Myron makes the trip, and learns of a decade-long secret: Terese once had a daughter who died in a car accident. Now it seems as though that daughter may be alive-and tied to a sinister plot with shocking global implications.
I've read several Harlan Coben's novels, and I always really like them.  This one was no exception.  It turned out to be a very political book, which can cause me to lose interest fast, but this wasn't too heavy that I couldn't follow.  The only thing I didn't like that it left a couple of bigger book issues unanswered and unresolved, which really bothered me.  If you introduce a major life event, go on to explain it!
*Let me come back and say that after a little research, I just realized that this character has a series of books, so that's probably why I had some questions left unanswered.  I didn't know that, so I didn't start with book #1.  Oops!  

From a distance, Felix Fitzwilliam, the son of an old English family, is a good husband and father. But, obsessed with order and routine, he’s a prisoner to perfection. Disengaged from the emotional life of his North Carolina family, Felix has let his wife, Ella, deal with their special-needs son by herself.
A talented jewelry designer turned full-time mother, Ella is the family rock…until her heart attack shatters their carefully structured existence. Now Harry, a gifted teen grappling with the chaos of Tourette’s, confronts a world outside his parents’ control, one that tests his desire for independence.
As Harry searches for his future, and Ella adapts to the limits of her failing health, Felix struggles with his past and present roles. To prevent the family from being ripped apart, they must each bend with the inevitability of change and reinforce the ties that bind.
I knew from the first page that this book was either going to have a really sad ending or a really happy ending - I won't tell you which it was though.  This was a touching story of a man trying to learn how to love and care for his special needs son while dealing with his wife's heart attack, and while working through his own issues.  At times I felt like it "lost" the story a little bit while getting caught up in stuff that wasn't really important, but those parts did add to the father/son relationship.  It was a good book, but nothing incredible.
One night, Mia Dennett enters a bar to meet her on-again, off-again boyfriend. But when he doesn't show, she unwisely leaves with an enigmatic stranger. At first Colin Thatcher seems like a safe one-night stand. But following Colin home will turn out to be the worst mistake of Mia's life. 

When Colin decides to hide Mia in a secluded cabin in rural Minnesota instead of delivering her to his employers, Mia's mother, Eve, and detective Gabe Hoffman will stop at nothing to find them. But no one could have predicted the emotional entanglements that eventually cause this family's world to shatter.  
I read this book slowly.  It was one of those I didn't want to fly through because I really enjoyed it.  It goes back and forth between the perspectives of Colin, the kidnapper, Gabe, the detective, and Eve, Mia's mom.  Right at the beginning you find out whether Mia lives or dies/is rescued or isn't rescued, so that part doesn't leave you hanging and isn't the mystery of the book.  Part of it I figured out about halfway through (which wasn't that hard to predict), but the ending left me shocked and rereading to make sure I caught it right.  The language was a bit rough in spots, but it was a really good book that kept me guessing until the last word of the book - I love that!




Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Wednesday Update

Happy Hump Day, friends!  It's been awhile since I've done a weekly update due to vacation and all of my picture posts.  I'm sure nobody's missed them, but I thought I'd give a quick update about all the happenings in the Smithson household lately.

  • Something in Jekyll tore all 4 of us up cold/sinus wise.  I don't know if we were all allergic to something, or if we just got colds due to the location change, but it was rough.  Thankfully the boys and I returned pretty close to normal (besides some left over congestion) when we got home, but Andy was still feeling pretty bad almost a week later after we got home.  He went to the doctor and ended up with a sinus infection.  He's on a strong antibiotic right now, so he's finally starting to feel better.  He usually has the strongest immune system of us all, so it's unusual for him to be down and out.
  • I don't know if Cooper is getting really bored with our summer routine, isn't sleeping and eating enough, or if it's just a phase, but ever since we've returned home from vacation, he's been so mean and rough with us!  He's a very hard to discipline child since most forms of discipline don't seem to phase him, so I've been a bit frustrated as to what to do with him.  I'm so emotional about him starting Pre-K next month, but I know he desperately needs it.  I feel bad because I seem to get on to him so much more than Clark, but Clark just has a completely different disposition.  If I barely raise my voice at Clark he falls apart.  
  • I've been getting back into my workout routine at the Y since we returned home, so that's been nice.  When school starts back my whole workout routine is going to be messed up, and I'll have to go back to workout in the evenings, which will be harder with Cooper in school and needing to get to bed extra early.  I'm already stressed out about how we're going to "live life" during the week during school because of early bed times... I know it'll all fall into place like it always does, but pre-k is going to be one of the biggest changes our little family has gone through in awhile.  Like I mentioned above, I've been VERY emotional about it this week.
  • Clark's 3rd birthday is less than 2 weeks away!  I can't believe that little guy is almost 3.  We've got his party planned for Coolidge Park, so I think he'll love it.  He's so hard to shop for because he just plays with whatever Cooper has, and he doesn't really know what he wants.  I thought at this point in time he'd be potty trained due to watching Cooper so much, but that baby has ZERO interest in potty training right now.  Cooper just did it on his own a little after he turned 3, so I'm hoping that'll be the case.
  • I've had so much TV I've wanted to watch this summer, but once the boys go to bed, so do Andy and I!  They wear me out during the day, plus most of my shows I watch with Andy, so it's hard to do that when he's passed out each night by 10:00.  We've got several Bear Gryll TV shows (The Island and Running Wild) backed up on the DVR, plus we've GOT to finish Dexter!  We're halfway through the final season... I've just got to get him going and we'll knock it out in a few nights.
  • We've got a busy few weeks coming up leading us right into the school year.  It's amazing how quickly this summer has gone by.  It feels like it was yesterday when I took the boys to my post planning days with me.  I know we have more vacation than most working people out there, and that the school year will fly by, but I hate missing time with my boys.  
  • I know nobody is interested, but I'm still have some ear issues.  Today makes 10 weeks of living with this nightmare.  It's not as bad as it once was, and it isn't as constant, but it's still annoying.  I just left my ENT a message to see what to, but I'm still praying it'll just disappear as mysteriously as it came.
Alright, I hope everyone has a great rest of the week.  We plan on swimming some more and maybe hitting up the Aquarium before the weekend rolls around.  Have a good evening!

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Post Vacation Bucket List Update

We knocked several items off of our bucket list during vacation and since we've returned home.  We've only got two things left to do on our summer bucket list... I can't believe we've accomplished all of these things with roughly a month (I'm exaggerating on the time a bit) left in our summer vacation.  I'm also shocked that we haven't tried a new to us restaurant in Chattanooga yet either... I guess we're creatures of habit.  Anyways, here's our updated list!
  • Go to an outdoor movie
  • Go to a water park
  • Family vacation
  • Watch fireworks
  • Have a picnic 
  • Make a summer hand print craft with the boys
  • Play putt-putt
  • Catch lightning bugs
  • Take family beach pictures
  • Ride bikes
  • Family hike
  • Build a sandcastle 
  • Star gaze
  • Go to the local farmer's market
  • Outdoor date with Andy
  • Find seashells
  • Ride a boat
  • Be a tourist in our own city
  • Go to a "new to us" park
  • Try a new restaurant in Chattanooga 
  • Go to a concert
  • Take the boys to the movie theater
  • Buy ice cream 
  • Buy food from a food truck
  • Visit Andy at work

Monday, July 13, 2015

Jekyll Pictures Post #7 {Family Day}

My parents and sister's family came down to Jekyll for the 4th of July weekend.  They got there late Friday night, and we spent most of the weekend on the beach and at the pool.  Saturday night we watched fireworks on the beach.  We were thrilled that they came down!  The boys loved playing with their cousins (they had missed them desperately), and Andy was glad to have my dad to play golf with.  My sister's family left on Sunday, but my mom and dad stayed through Monday and traveled home with us.  We stopped with them in Savannah to explore River Street and eat at my favorite Savannah restaurant, Clary's (where we ran into Adam Sandler - he was in town filming a movie).  Anyways, everyone wanted to see Driftwood Beach before they left, so we took these pictures Sunday morning.  The tide was in, there was no breeze, and it was sweltering.  

This is my last picture post from vacation (which I'm sure everyone is thankful for), so I'll give a little vacation synopsis really fast.  I really loved Jekyll.  It was beautiful, low key, and not a bad drive at all.  My biggest complaints were the bugs, the high tide issue at our resort (which wasn't an issue all over the island), and the fact that there wasn't a ton of things to do or places to eat on the island.  There were plenty of places to eat on St. Simons Island or in Brunswick on the mainland, which were both about a 30 minute drive, but we didn't want to do that every night.  Anyways, I'd definitely go back to Jekyll for a week of vacation, but I really think it'd be a great place for a long weekend trip to the beach.  There's just enough places to eat and places to go for a long weekend, and the drive wouldn't be bad.  I'm a Daytona Beach girl at heart, so it's hard to top there for me, but I really did enjoy Jekyll.